Dear Saint Hilda’s of Halifax church members,
November
Back in November we travelled to two mountain villages in Eastern Nepal, to Meena’s ancestral land. We taught a day’s English at a primary school only, although that went very well and we were well-appreciated by the school! They were not used to new teachers so it was a sort of celebration dayJ. Meena’s uncle is one of the teachers.
We had lots of teas and large meals with our relatives and made friends at their homes, I discovered how to cook on a fire-stove and harvest millet and toured a cousin’s farm-crop of cardamom. He brought a gun in case there were monkeys, which destroy the crop.
In the other village we were told that 5 years ago the villagers had to chase 2 tigers away from the area! People keep cows, buffaloes, chickens and pigs. In this second village there is a larger school that was built on land donated by Meena’s family. We were welcomed by all villagers and made acquaintances, which will continue when we return!
We both met families for the first time, as Meena was a seven months old baby when they left the home village. Half a century ago, Meena’s father had become a Christian. He was rejected by the community, as they used to call Christians untouchable. He left to Terai (flat) area for good. He tried to make social improvements, however, these were to prove to come more gradually, as follows: a chimney for the cooking stoves to reduce smoke inhalation, with a school and electricity for lights, tv and mobile phones, over the years. We saw like in British communities, drinking to much alcohol remains a serious problem. We saw many drunken people and it is a custom there that people have to offer a rice / millet beer to every visitor, like a cup of tea. Whereas, Nepali Christians do not drink alcohol, and this is a very good witness.
After leaving the village, Meena’s father created a Christian congregation and made town improvements in a farm-town in the southern plains of Nepal, which we also visited prior to our mountain visit. We can share about that at a later date, but please do ask us about it in February!
Back in the mountains: The people’s religion and cultural understanding and lifestyle are rich, so it is important to be respectful/able and to be honouring/able to others, which we were, of course. I particularly made acquaintance with a gravestone chiseler/sign writer who was suffering from a hurting elbow. One early morning I asked: ‘please join us and pray it gets better.’ We did! He said I want to become Christian but because of my family I cannot. I made friends with a teacher also. The school was not doing well and I was able to encourage him.
Our cousin introduced us to a Christian man (a volunteer chapel leader) who over-sees a newly established Chapel (two years old) at the top of the village. We went to chapel, which was a one hour walk, to meet the Christian brothers and sisters. That was our first experience walking one hour to go to church but some people walk two or three hours to go to church there. He asked me to share from the Bible in 11th hour. By God’s help I shared from the Twelve Bridesmaids Parable, as I had done before in Kathmandu (I did this regularly in Devon, at Lee Abbey). And Meena translated into Nepali.
The Pastor invited us for a meal, which we enjoyed; besides food, we had a lovely fellowship and also we had an opportunity to get to know each other. They were very keen to know how life in the UK is and about the church. So we did lots of explaining. I talked about Saint Hilda’s Church followed by the Pastor praying. We gave gifts to Pastor’s family and the Chapel leader.
The Chapel leader (Ajamber) generously gave us a tour of the village and our land, on the mountainside. He is now not only our Fellow In Christ, who voluntarily leads a group of new Christians of all ages, but has a small kiwi-fruit plantation within his farm, and has introduced kiwi-farming to the village, where he sells fruits. It was the best kiwi we ever had as we were just in time for harvesting. Besides this he sells tangerines and also cardamom. There is demand for kiwis in Kathmandu!!!!!!!
I found the most important factor is friendship and encouragement (which God makes ‘greater’ than ‘normally happens’, and which is difficult to find often in this world). With holy character, things can lead from there, where one person helps another. We can pray for that in our parish too!!!!! Please keep us in your prayers also.
December and January
Meena and I have had our second (Nepali) Wedding Reception at a Christian restaurant with family and childhood friends. We can show photos when we give our Anandaban Hospital slideshow! I, Daniel have made a slideshow for you that will last about 20 minutes! We were given a tour so I’ve written a few things about the hospital to share with you also! I hope it is as good as the Leprosy Mission’s! Irene (do you remember our niece) had her first birthday, and friends and family came and gave gifts and a sermon and prayers were said in the home (some photos at the slideshow), in Kathmandu!
We recently visited a Pastor, David and his family and we had a lovely lunch with them. We gave gifts from the UK. It was a great blessing to see the new church building. The new church building is still under construction upstairs, and they’re trusting to move soon, as they are living in a rented house. The church has a ground-floor hall, with underlayed carpet, which is already in use for church. It is on a beautiful farmed-hillside overlooking Kathmandu!
Meena has a VISA for six months so she will have to go back to Nepal in July, and then apply for a UK Residency Visa. If everything goes well she will come back to me in the UK in September. Please keep this matter and us in your prayers.